STOP! Before you file the paperwork – you do have options

 

Second SaturdayALBUQUERQUE’S SECOND SATURDAY

Thinking of Divorce? Second Saturday offers non-biased financial, emotional and legal advice from qualified local professionals, providing people with the knowledge, support, resources Arrow - Regiter Here Second Saturdayand trust that they need to survive the divorce process and move forward with confidence toward a new life.

Register today and get the facts now – You will learn everything you need to know about divorce!

Learn from local professionals how to navigate through the complex processes of divorce, how to protect your family and children, and empower yourself. Walk away from this workshop with smart, actionable steps to take next.

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  • “You have given me so information and much to think about”
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Or there is another added alternative option, which is Discernment Counseling. . .

 

Discernment Counseling - Kelly ChisholmDISCERNMENT COUNSELING FOR COUPLES

If you or your spouse are considering divorce but are not completely sure that’s the best path, you are in a tough spot. And Discernment Counseling is designed for you- It’s a chance to slow down, take a breath, and look at your options for your marriage.

Discernment Counseling is a new way of helping couples where one person is “leaning out” of the relationship—and not sure that regular marriage counseling would help–and the other is “leaning in”—that is, interested in rebuilding the marriage.

The counselor will help you decide whether to try to restore your marriage to health, move towards divorce, or take a time out and decide later.

The goals are for you to:

  • Gain clarity and confidence about a direction, based on a deeper understanding of your relationship and its possibilities for the future.
  • Not to solve your marital problems but to see if they are solvable. You will each be treated with compassion and respect no matter how you are feeling about your marriage at the moment. There’s no “bad” guy or “good” guy.

You will come in as a couple but the most important work occurs in the one-to-one conversations with the counselor. Why? Because you are starting out in different places.

The counselor respects your reasons for divorce while trying to open up the possibility of restoring the marriage to health.

The counselor emphasizes the importance of each of you seeing your own contributions to the problems and the possible solutions. This will be useful in future relationships even if this one ends.

Couples Discernment Counseling is not Suited for these situations:

  • When one spouse has already made a final decision to divorce
  • When one spouse is coercing the other to participate
  • When there is danger of domestic violence